Have you ever poured your soul into a single passion project for years on end? That's exactly what Nito Souji, a self-identified hikikomori from Japan, did while creating his game, 'Pull Stay'. After seven long years of development, the game is finally out in the world, raising fascinating questions about isolation, creativity, and the very nature of gaming. Let’s take a journey through Nito's struggles and triumphs as he shares his thoughts behind this unique game.

Image Credit: Nito Souji
A Glimpse Into the Hikikomori Lifestyle
What is Hikikomori?
The term Hikikomori originated in Japan and refers to individuals who withdraw from society, often staying indoors for months or even years. This phenomenon began to gain attention in the 1980s. Today, it affects up to 1 million individuals in Japan alone. But why do people choose this path?
Cultural Pressures
In Japan, societal expectations can be overwhelming. Many young people feel immense pressure to succeed academically and professionally. When they struggle, some retreat into isolation. It’s a coping mechanism, really. But at what cost?
Nito Souji's Journey
Nito Souji, a self-described hikikomori, has shared his experiences openly. He once said,
"My time away from society gave me both the freedom to create and the burden of isolation."
His journey reflects the dual nature of isolation: it can spark creativity but also lead to profound loneliness.

Image Credit: Nito Souji
Isolation and Creativity
Interestingly, isolation can fuel creativity. Many artists and writers find inspiration in solitude. For Nito, it led to the creation of his game, Pull Stay. This game is not just a project; it’s a reflection of his life as a hikikomori. In it, players protect a shut-in from societal pressures, mirroring Souji's own struggles.
Societal Implications
As we look at hikikomori, we must also consider the stigma surrounding NEET individuals (Not in Employment, Education, or Training). Society often views them as lazy or unmotivated. But is that fair? Many are battling internal demons that we can't see.
Conclusion
Hikikomori is more than just a trend; it’s a complex issue rooted in cultural expectations and personal struggles. As we explore this lifestyle, we gain insight into the challenges faced by those who withdraw from the world.